Writings · Essays & Letters

Putting what we have lived into words is its own kind of healing.

I write about grief, trauma, ceremony, belonging, and the challenging work of remaining in relationship with what is real.

These essays are not written from outside the questions. They emerge from lived experience, from the people and places that teach me, and from listening long enough for something true to become visible.

Writing is another way of tending.

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Purpose & Belonging

What Do I Belong To?

“Perhaps the emptiness we call a lack of purpose is sometimes the emptiness of disconnection.”

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Trauma & Capacity

The Other Side

“What our pain is asking for is not a way out. It is space.”

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Cacao & Ceremony

Before It Was Ceremonial, It Was Real

“It was not ceremonial cacao. It was not a ceremony. And it was completely real.”

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